You all should read this article with full spirit, dedication and utmost satisfaction. Experiment and implement in life each and every thing as per your choice. Without any preamble, writing these lines especially for you, with an intention that, you all will realize potential and strength of a human brain in a well manner.
Please always remember that life is a good teacher and experience is the lesson you learned from life. You can make life happy and sad within a fraction of second, that also without any much effort, your mind can do it. Always try to listen, these are positive and negative feelings, positive feelings will give you enthusiasm and negative feelings will give you sorrows in life. Generally, all like happiness in life and it means positive feelings. See who will control this, our mind, who else can, you know, it is so powerful, it is powerful than a supersonic computer. But we do not aware how much power our beautiful mind has actually. Whoever knows the power of mind, that person can achieve anything in life easily.
We all have learned from our experience is that, life does not listen to our logic, it goes on its own way undisturbed, we have to listen to life, life will not listen to our logic, it does not bother to our logic. Trust that the winter of your sorrow will yield to the summer of your joy, just as the brilliant rays of the morning always follow the darkest part of the night. Love one of the most precious topics in today’s world, every body like and do it, but mostly are not sincere to do it. Let us talk about love first, because you all living in 21st century and due to the overlapping of western culture in India, we are forgetting some important things in life, among those one is that love. Try to find out the real love in life, that is a purified mind can only do pure love. Always try to love with purified minds then only, we will get the same thing return back.
Let us explain, a little about love, it is a feeling, when two forces of equal quality meet each other and a third force developed in between them, i.e. love in pure scientific way. When I see myself in another man and when I see him as my own self. When I find something in you that, I myself possess. I am naturally drawn towards you and being to love you, this is Vendantic way of explaining love. Love is two types, selfish love and unselfish love, selfish love means, it is coming from attachment. Unselfish love means, love without attachment. Attachment is death and thereby selfish love is death.
Attraction in the mind is more dangerous, attraction will give pain to man in life. If you attract to anybody, you will have a fear, whether I will loose it or not, so it is painful in nature. Basically attraction is coming from selfish love feeling, so selfish love is very painful. Pleasure and pain are the effects of virtue and vice. Mind contracts at the time of pain and mind expands at the time of pleasure. Mind experiences pleasure and pain. It is only mental attitude or certain kind of mental behavior, towards objects that’s brings grief or joy, pleasure and pain. Pain in mind is very dangerous to health, a small pain in mind will create big problems to the entire life, which will destroy pleasure of mind. It is like computer virus, within second, it will capture the entire body and you will feel that uneasiness later. If you wish to lead a good life, your mind will have to run always with pleasure. One thing is very clear that the thing, which give you pleasure will give you pain also later. Some say that children’s are happy, it is totally wrong, they only become exuberant. They get serious reaction also. See, every action there is an opposite reaction, Newton’s law is applicable to human mind also. A pleasurable beginning of every action will be painful later and a painful beginning of every action will be pleasurable later. Like wise, children who do not have balanced mind, after some times, they will weep together, without any proper reason. It is only a man who is having balanced mind can really happy. Actually there is no happiness at all in any of the object of the world. It is sheer ignorance to think that we drive any pleasure from sense of objects or from the mind. There can be attraction without attachment, you can be attracted with a beautiful girl or boy. It is not necessary that you have attached with that girl or boy. Attachment comes after possession and enjoyment.
Keep mind always cool, a thoughtless and desireless mind is a mind of spiritual person and that mind would be more powerful and balanced one. You should have always a cheerful face with laugh, it is the sign of extreme happiness, be happy always and make others happy. Always keep this slogan in mind that “God is happiness”. Self awareness is more important in today’s world, first you have to realize your power within, i.e. your real knowledge. Once you conquer your mind, you can control your mind automatically. Realize the truth first, whenever approaching to any body in our life, first we have to find out the reality and un-reality. Once you realize the truth, then your mind would become very powerful and unchangeable. That is the real passion of love, find the truth, find the happiness, leave the desires and make the mind thoughtless.
Have you ever think about what is the main failure of love marriages, it is because of that the we cant able to maintain the flow of love after some times. Once we feel the pleasure, our mind will be habituated, we will have the desire to taste it once more and accordingly it becomes an habitual action. Some times, human mind will divert to some thing else, at that time, the other person will not get the pleasure. At this time, our mind get a small pain, due to this pain virus, mind become thoughtful, when the unwanted thoughts comes, it fills with egos. Note that digested knowledge is wisdom and undigested knowledge is ego, ego will definitely destroy human mind, it is painful. This will affect our relationships, it causes for diverse to love marriages.
Mind and senses are one, senses means, eyes, years etc. it is like river is fed with the ocean likewise, mind is fed with senses. If you have control in your senses you have control in mind also. In the same manner, you have control in mind, you can control your 5 senses also (See, taste, feel, hear & smell these are five senses of human beings), apart from these 5 senses mind is a 6th sense. Normally in every house, you can find that one entrance gate and exit gates, like wise, in human body ear and eyes are entrance gate, these are avenues of sense of knowledge. Organ of re-production and Guda are exit gates of our body, they through it out urines and faeces. Control of tongue is most difficult in human body, the cycle is like this, first speech, then ear to hear and see through eyes. You can even control the genital organ, but controlling the taste is very difficult for human body. If you wish to control your mind, you have to control three powerful organs of human body, that is eye, ear & taste, then you can control your mind under discipline.
Certain things we have to take care in our day to day life those are, do not argue with others unnecessarily, because argument results hostility, heated feelings and it is wastage of energy. In universe, every man has got his on views, it is very impossible to change others views. Do not try to convince others, when you are an aspirant, when you are gathering knowledge through study, do not argue with others till your thoughts become mature and steady. Imagination in the mind always exaggerate, exaggeration is a modification of lie. One who is gaining knowledge should not exaggerate. They should utter words with scientific and mathematical precession.
Those who are gaining knowledge they have to do once in a week at least a small exercise, that is introspects. You can take one hour, sit in a room and close the door of room, shut your eyes and start thinking yourself, your mind then you can realize that you have lots of defects in the mind. Try to have a close watch to the activities of mind, slowly and gradually you can understand your defects and weakness of your mind. You are the best judge of your mind, after few movement you will feel that the things to be removed from the mind. You should know the right method to change it, use your on method and change the same from the mind for ever. Do the practice for few months, you can realize the improvement within you. You have to concentrate on self analysis, self determination & self reliance, these is the study of mind. If you do this in daily life, your mind would be a purified mind. You can also keep a dairy for recording the progress.
When the thoughts of revenge and hatred arises in the mind, try to control the physical body and speech first. Do not utter or evil harsh words. Do not try to injure others, if you try to practice this for few months, the thought of revenge, having no scope of manifest outside, will die by themselves. It is extremely difficult to control such thoughts from the very beginning, without having recourse to control body and speech first.
Serve all, love all, respect all & develop a cosmic love. Try to have equal vision, the practice of equal vision is extremely difficult, but strenuous and constant effort, will bring about success eventually. There is absolutely nothing right and nothing wrong in this relative universe. Right and wrong are mind made. Everybody is right from his on point of view & There is a grain of truth in everything. Do not expect anything in life, it causes mental disturbance. If you do not expect, you do not have disappointment in life. Forget everything that pertains to the world. Even if anything that is conducive to luxury comes, reject it at once. You will grow strong, remember god, god alone. Every thing else here is a dream. The world is a long dream.
Doubt is a great tormentor of mind & it is got a mental world of its own. It again and again trouble the man. There is no ends for doubts, if one doubt is removed another doubt will come to mind at the soonest. This is the trick of mind, cut the knots of doubts by the sword of wisdom. Know him, who gets the doubts, no one doubts the doubter.
